36 – Valentines from my abusive ex

TW / CW: rape, sodomy, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, psychological abuse and abusive relationships. New ep on a Friday why not! I discuss how difficult it is to overcome trauma. How it really stays with me – longer than expected. And how it’s taken me years to come to terms with what happened to me….

35 – Women’s March 2k19 & Bumble F*ckbois

I personally don’t think the Women’s Marches are very intersectional. To me they seem like a big show of white feminism. But that’s just my opinion. Apologies for the delay. Work is wild! Make sure to follow on instagram @achinglypolite & @myartfulnudes. @FranciscoYost13 is also a great place to spread the love. ©2019 Clementine YostFebruary 1, 2019 13:30  PST https://achinglypolite.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/35-Womens-March-2k19-Bumble-F_ckboity.mp3Podcast:…

31 – Workplace sexual harassment & Tumblr porn

I tell a woman’s story of being sexually harassed at her job and how she doesn’t owe her harasser anything – let alone her time.  Tumblr is deleting all NSFW content from its platform. Bye bye ethically made porn that’s not just for the male gaze. *sigh* Make sure to follow on instagram @achinglypolite &…

30 – Holiday edition bulimia & You are enough

The holidays can be a stressful time for those of us with disordered eating. Behold my tips for how to survive Christmas (and all the drama that comes with it), while recovering from an ED. I also have some wild news for you: YOU ARE ENOUGH! Say it with me! Make sure to follow on…

29 – Dense daddies & Pornified art

Austin may have the highest density of daddies, but the ones on Instagram take the cake for being the most ~dense~. Old white dudes throwing around their sexual desires like the entitled horndogs they are. Nothing new here! Also, could people please stop pornifying my art? Don’t hypersexualize me. Don’t hypersexualize my art. Leave us…

28 – Density of Daddies (Sugar Daddies & Babies)

An old white dude propositioned me on Instagram: Do I want a Sugar Daddy? Would I like to be his Sugar Baby? Hard pass. Lest you think Fuckboity is only 4 the young, lemme tell ya – Fuckboi is 4 life. Issa lifestyle. BUT, not so fast. What the heck even is a Sugar Baby? A…

27 – Sex work is work & Victoria’s not so secret

Sex work is work! & it is no secret that Victoria’s Secret is very white, fat-phobic, and trans-exclusive. That’s not ok! Make sure to follow on instagram @achinglypolite.  Follow @juiceboxapp and read more online! Download on iOS and use the promo code POLITE for your first five days free. If you’re feeling generous, get involved with…

Episode 26 – Natural disasters & the Woolsey fire

Hello lovely listeners! This episode is different because I am in my friend’s flat today. Why? The Woolsey Fire. Everything is on fire. My home is near the fire and we were told to prepare to evacuate. Not helped by the Santa Ana winds. Anyways, the acoustics in my friend’s flat are much different than…

Try not to weigh yourself

I’ve always heard friends and colleagues say “I never weigh myself” and thought, “I could never not do that.” (I know, a double negative. But I was and am doubly negative about my body and my self). I thought, “I need to know my weight”. But these past two weeks in London, I haven’t weighed…

Episode 25 – Are millennials having less sex?

On episode 25, I answer the fabled question: are millennials having ~LeSs~ sex? Yes. But why? Tune the heck in to find out. Make sure to follow on instagram @achinglypolite. Follow @candyken69 and @pickledragqueen. If you’re feeling generous, get involved with my Patreon page. I love you all already! xx   Show Notes https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/59p3vz/are-millennials-having-sex-an-investigation https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/05/06/why-millennials-have-sex-with-fewer-partners-than-their-parents-did/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.0da026e78326…